*How Not To Raise Your Children In This Generation*
```I have heard a lot of people say this is how our parents did it, so we're going to follow in their footsteps. While I do not understand why you can't make informed decisions by your self; since you have more information and are more knowledgeable than your parent's generation, I'd still like to help you understand things you shouldn't be doing in this time and age.```
Don't ever raise your children thinking you need to sheild them from sex talk.
All the "if a man touch you you'll get pregnant" is an obsolete way to teach a child that sex leads to pregnancy. Use age appropriate language and teach both gender what having sex means and it's consequences.
```Don't ever teach your daughters alone the importance of chores just because they have to get married.
You need to teach both male and female the importance of doing chores because it's a survival skill. Everybody needs to do chores because we're humans and we need clean homes, good food and organised life.```
choosing career or forcing them to follow in your own career path is a double no. They are not you and are not like you. They don't want what you want and should be allowed to be happy with what they want. Your style is to guide.
_Stop judging them for having opposite sex as friends. It's a normal thing. The opposite will always alsttract it_ _doesn't mean they are having sex or that they are corrupt.(thou some are.)_
Don't ever give your kids reasons to believe you don't trust them. All these parents going to conduct virginity test and pregnancy tests every month when your children are not even sexual active, searching your son's room as a sting operation because you think it's the right thing to do is a double no,
*Don't choke their independence. Allow them freedom to decide little things that will form their personality so you don't drive them into adults with low self* *esteem. Allow them grow on their own. Again your duty is to guide not to police them.*
```I have heard a lot of people say this is how our parents did it, so we're going to follow in their footsteps. While I do not understand why you can't make informed decisions by your self; since you have more information and are more knowledgeable than your parent's generation, I'd still like to help you understand things you shouldn't be doing in this time and age.```
Don't ever raise your children thinking you need to sheild them from sex talk.
All the "if a man touch you you'll get pregnant" is an obsolete way to teach a child that sex leads to pregnancy. Use age appropriate language and teach both gender what having sex means and it's consequences.
```Don't ever teach your daughters alone the importance of chores just because they have to get married.
You need to teach both male and female the importance of doing chores because it's a survival skill. Everybody needs to do chores because we're humans and we need clean homes, good food and organised life.```
choosing career or forcing them to follow in your own career path is a double no. They are not you and are not like you. They don't want what you want and should be allowed to be happy with what they want. Your style is to guide.
_Stop judging them for having opposite sex as friends. It's a normal thing. The opposite will always alsttract it_ _doesn't mean they are having sex or that they are corrupt.(thou some are.)_
Don't ever give your kids reasons to believe you don't trust them. All these parents going to conduct virginity test and pregnancy tests every month when your children are not even sexual active, searching your son's room as a sting operation because you think it's the right thing to do is a double no,
*Don't choke their independence. Allow them freedom to decide little things that will form their personality so you don't drive them into adults with low self* *esteem. Allow them grow on their own. Again your duty is to guide not to police them.*
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