LOVE, ROMANCE, SEX AND SPIRIT, SOUL, BODY



LOVE, ROMANCE, SEX
AND SPIRIT, SOUL, BODY

Marriage is about the amalgamation of the whole human being. It's an exchange of these notions.... Love, Romance and Sex...through the three parts of a human being; Spirit, Soul and Body.

Body is your physical being, i.e the brain, sensory organs.
Soul is the mind (conciousness), Will (choices), emotions, (thoughts, attitudes)
Spirit is intangible God in us. It gives our life's meaning and purpose and enables us to love. Its through our spirit that we have communication and fellowship with God.
Now....
Love happens in the Spirit.
Romance happens in the Soul
Sex happens in the body.

What does this mean?

LOVE HAPPENS IN THE SPIRIT
This means that love is supposed to happen to the spirit being, not the body. You take time to be with someone, and you fall in love with their inner beauty "Spirit". This is the image of God, who's the God of love. Who created this spirit out of love, to be loved by Him and to love everything around it.
Genesis 1:26...(And then God said, let us make man in Our own image and likeness; and let them have dominion over everything created)  Absolute trust to man by a big God! That's love depicted there. So, its this man in the image of God that falls in love. Basically your spirit is attracted to the inner beauty of a person you've interacted with, and that inner beauty captures your spiritual attention.

And the attributes for this inner beauty are...the fruits of the spirit...Galatians 5:22.
For the fruit of the Spirit is, Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. Against such things there's no law.

So, the two people in love, must have that spiritual connection, where by the fruits of the spirit in them both connect so well, that no matter what happens, they can stand it and remain in love. That's where even the foundation for our character is inspired.
How we react to every situation in our lives depends on these fruits. And that's what draws people to us. More so, the opposite sex. So a man looks at the woman and how she behaves, from the fruits of her spirit....and he likes the fruits...and an emotion is ignited.
Mistakenly, some people think, you just look at the physical appearance and you fall in love. I don't think so. That can only be lust. You look at woman's body and your body wants that....then that becomes your motivator for the chase.
So, Love happens in the spirit. Thats why the bible addresses Christ as our groom, and we the church his bride. Because he first loved us. He loves our spirits, not bodies. So, just like Christ loves his bride and sacrificed everything for her, its incumbent on us as Christians to love our husband or wife and sacrifice everything for them.

ROMANCE HAPPENS IN THE SOUL
There are 3 components of the human soul...the mind, the will and emotions.
Romance is the connection of your mind, will, emotions and senses to your spouse. Its an act of self surrender to one another.

Romance satisfies the mind, senses and emotions. For example you have been thinking about that person, with whom your spirit connected...the one you love...then when you see them, you want to reach out and give them a squeeze and big kiss.
Its simply because, your mind has been thinking about them all day. And you can't wait to feed those thoughts by a holding of hands, kissing, hugging, caressing, a gift, ....etc.

That's why it is difficult to have romance in marriages, where the mind has not been positively thinking about each other. But when you were dating, all your thoughts were on one another, so it was easy to be romantic every time you met.

Note: Romance is a choice. Unlike love, you must choose to be the romantic partner. Challenges will come, but choose to think about only the positive character of your spouse, and you'll stay romantic. And also choose today to do things that will make them think about you all the time...Employ the five love languages.

SEX HAPPENS IN THE BODY
Having fallen in love (connection of both spirits), gotten your minds filled with the thoughts of one another (romance that arouses good emotions), now you're ready to join your physical bodies in intercourse.

The Love and Romance, I call fore play or creative thinking. This is the kind of blissful moment husbands and wives should enjoy in marriage. Yes, that's the marriage God wants you to have.

So now that you understand where love happens, go love the right way. The marrieds, explore each other's spiritual/character attributes. The unmarried, congratulations, make a choice to fall in love the right way, with the right part of the human being. Do not, and i repeat, do not employ anything sexual to your relationship as of now. Wait until you are married. God bless you all
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