MAIDS TAKEOVER* - *Train your DAUGHTERS, not your MAIDS.*
Topic: *MAIDS TAKEOVER* -
*Train your DAUGHTERS, not your MAIDS.*
π What else were you expecting? HERBS or AILMENT? Wait. This one is a serious *daily & DOMESTIC AILMENT.*
Suitors Now Prefer *our MAIDS to our DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE* ..... Parents complain.
Why NOT?
*While we devote time in TRAINING the maids on how to COOK well, CLEAN the house & various good MANNERISMS, we leave our own daughters UNTRAINED.*
*We overwork the maids & they adjust with equanimity because they need us to survive.*
The maids turn out to *better manage all the indignation & insolence we & our children subject them to* - making them *better wives who can manage even the ANGRIEST of men.*
Meanwhile, our daughters are locked up in their rooms *watching movies or painting their faces or fingers.*
Our precious *daughters are pampered* through nursery, primary & secondary schools.
They speak the English we want and know all the slangs by heart while *we beat the maids blue black* if they ever ask our girls to help out in domestic duties. *They see kitchen things as maids' stuff things.*
The girls move from boarding schools to the university, do their NYSC, even go for a *Masters degree, get a job,* etc.
Of course, they are now *ripe for marriage* & you'd wish that to happen soon.
From *one relationship to another,* the SAME story.
The *guys would parade & dump* them as *they're only good in parties & outings, clubs & red carpet functions but never at BUILDING a home.*
The boys de-commit when they notice that the *prospective wife cannot cook, arrange things & are very domestically untrained.*
The rich guys can manage as they would *mitigate the handicap by hiring a domestic help.* Not all guys can afford this for a start.
The upcoming and very sensitive guys *who would make good husbands, fathers and leaders would not manage* these *parents-inflicted shortcomings.*
*They would rather settle for well trained ones. They know the value and the pride in hosting friends at home to delicious delicacies prepared by a QUALIFIED wife.*
*Not all your maids would remain your servants for ever.* Some of them would finally do part-time studies and like a train, *get to their God-ordained destinations* sooner or later.
Like a perfume, *good guys perceive a well-trained wife material from afar* and dump the daughters of the bourgeois like hot iron. π€¨
*Long time happiness in at stake.* No explanation is given & sometimes, the sack message is made through a social medium.
*Let your daughters learn what you teach your maids* to make them *compete for the few available good men if marriage is important to them.*
Believe it or not, *there are few guys who believe that marriage is "FOR BETTER FOR WORSE."*
Don't be deceived: *love is an active verb.* Yes it is. You love; you loved; and you used to love. You can also hate who you used to love. Therefore, *some men are immune to pre-marital love blindness.*
In practice, *love can't cover the STENCH of bad early formation of our daughters.*
Right now, *educated former maids* are now cornering *better men on offer* because *they possess the requisite or set skills the highly perceptible and ready husband materials need.*
*PARENTS - Fathers & Mothers please take note.*
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