FORGIVE YOUR EX
FORGIVE YOUR EX ;
Move to a place where all you want for them is peace and love....
If you keep saying things like: "My ex ruined my life, he/she broke my heart and took me for granted so now I find the word 'love' disgusting, ..... etc", *You Will Never Heal.*
I know it takes time but you have to forgive your ex, for whatever he/she may have done to you....
You'll notice you have truly moved on when you genuinely want them to be happy.
Remember, once upon a time you were in love with them, you shared your body/secrets/strengths/weaknesses/time with them. If you think so low of them, allow me to remind you that the person you date/fall in love with is a reflection of you.
Personally, I'm really good friends with one ex and the rest we don't speak. But I've no issues with them, even the ones who try to attack my character out of an obsessed love have been humbled by me. It's all love from my end. I still wish them well.... There's a saying that "Hurt people, hurt people". But this saying doesn't have to apply to you, live above pettiness and wickedness at all times. Always act regal! *Love is not a do or die affair...* *when the one you love and care about takes you for granted or says it's over, let it be.*
Most people can't handle a good thing, even if it's given to them freely. Your heart isn't meant for everyone, discernment is key here.
*I have learnt alot from my exes, I love what they taught me: 'that I deserve better, don't settle for aluminium when you can have gold, what love isn't, how to be better for the right man....etc.'*
Release all that hate right now.... embrace peace and love, that's how you grow and prosper. There's no prosperity in the midst of hate, misery, unhealed love. You will only end up repeating your past and this is harmful to you, even without you realising it. You end up antagonising every prospective man/woman you meet.....
*Don't confuse forgiveness with friendship, it's okay to forgive them in your heart and still not have them in your life*..... God bless you.
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Move to a place where all you want for them is peace and love....
If you keep saying things like: "My ex ruined my life, he/she broke my heart and took me for granted so now I find the word 'love' disgusting, ..... etc", *You Will Never Heal.*
I know it takes time but you have to forgive your ex, for whatever he/she may have done to you....
You'll notice you have truly moved on when you genuinely want them to be happy.
Remember, once upon a time you were in love with them, you shared your body/secrets/strengths/weaknesses/time with them. If you think so low of them, allow me to remind you that the person you date/fall in love with is a reflection of you.
Personally, I'm really good friends with one ex and the rest we don't speak. But I've no issues with them, even the ones who try to attack my character out of an obsessed love have been humbled by me. It's all love from my end. I still wish them well.... There's a saying that "Hurt people, hurt people". But this saying doesn't have to apply to you, live above pettiness and wickedness at all times. Always act regal! *Love is not a do or die affair...* *when the one you love and care about takes you for granted or says it's over, let it be.*
Most people can't handle a good thing, even if it's given to them freely. Your heart isn't meant for everyone, discernment is key here.
*I have learnt alot from my exes, I love what they taught me: 'that I deserve better, don't settle for aluminium when you can have gold, what love isn't, how to be better for the right man....etc.'*
Release all that hate right now.... embrace peace and love, that's how you grow and prosper. There's no prosperity in the midst of hate, misery, unhealed love. You will only end up repeating your past and this is harmful to you, even without you realising it. You end up antagonising every prospective man/woman you meet.....
*Don't confuse forgiveness with friendship, it's okay to forgive them in your heart and still not have them in your life*..... God bless you.
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